How can I help my husband from quitting gambling addiction? - casino gambling addiction
She admits he is addicted to gambling. For it is natural and fun to go 3 to 4 times a week at the casino and play some $ 2,000 per month. What can I do? I want to save our marriage. This kills me.
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Casino Gambling Addiction How Can I Help My Husband From Quitting Gambling Addiction?
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2000, bet he can not stop. You should take and if you lose, you have the year 2000. do this every month
As with any addiction, it can help a person if he / she will not be helped. The first thing to do is make him understand that he is an addiction and how it affects their lives, for example, that you lose are worried about your house, set on economies. If you accept themselves that they have an addiction and is willing to change and then it can help to cut all access to money. Remove your credit and ATM cards. Place on a grant because it allows you to control, to how it is spent.
Until you acknowledge that you have a problem, we can do nothing except protect themselves. In many places, were now anonymous groups, phone number and see if they support groups for spouses and go. You hear yours as others with similar problems and even actively face. You feel less alone.
Most addicts (some) have reached the bottom, does not mean you have to go. Separate bank accounts, where the bills are paid, cancellation of credit cards ...
I understand that you save your marriage, but you must first save himself or his game, to destroy their lives, and nothing good can come of it.
At one point, is when the spouse comes out, that addicts differently in depth, sometimes not everyone is. If you have children, you have to do what is good for them, I'm sure they will not end on the road.
The players are like addicts, liars, is part of the disease, therefore, not blindly trust what they tell him about their fundingis. Check bank statements, invoices, credit cards, etc. to know exactly what we need now, and not until the bank intends to exclude, and they had to wait no idea about.
The players think they are a part of the win and to cover all other losses. It is an illusion and despair live and get them professional help or a group like GA, I was a sacrifice that is harder than it has been communicated to enter his addiction to the crack together.
His addiction is a disease, unfortunately, the disease can make you sick as well and is already a toll. Help for you, finally, it is also useful when you are ready to lend you healthy and strong love and support they need. We wish him luck.
If your husband has no problem admitting that there is nothing you can do to "help" of the party. As also recognize "that" the best for a problem, "what to do over. Go easy on your marriage ... but if you prefer, you can leave a back door open for him to "help for his problem" and possibly back to him. ... Sorry, but it is "the best advice I give.
If your husband has no problem admitting that there is nothing you can do to "help" of the party. As also recognize "that" the best for a problem, "what to do over. Go easy on your marriage ... but if you prefer, you can leave a back door open for him to "help for his problem" and possibly back to him. ... Sorry, but it is "the best advice I give.
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